Becoming Me by Jadyn

Becoming Me by Jadyn - July 2025 Scholarship Essay

Growing up, I was a bit of a wallflower. I was shy, never raising my hand in class, even when I knew the answer. I avoided starting conversations with my classmates out of fear of being judged or saying something wrong. I mostly sat quietly, hoping to blend into the background. I kept the same two friends throughout elementary school, and that was enough for me. I didn’t feel the need to branch out, and to be honest, the idea of doing so felt overwhelming.

Once I entered middle school in the 7th grade, I decided I wanted things to change. I no longer wanted to live in the background of my own life. For the first time, I started to feel the urge to push past my own limits and break free from the fear that had held me back for so long. I was still quiet, but I was ready to make a change. I was tired of watching everyone else take opportunities I was too scared to take.

That year, I decided to take a risk and try out for the volleyball and basketball teams. I remember standing in the gym with shaky hands, my heart pounding in my chest. I was nervous and unsure of myself, convinced I wasn’t good enough. But I showed up anyway, and to my surprise, I made both teams. Those opportunities changed everything. The sense of pride I felt in those moments made me realize that I was capable of more than I thought. Not long after, I also gathered the courage to tryout for cheerleading, and once again, I earned a spot.

Making those teams gave me something I didn’t even realize I was missing. It gave me confidence. I started speaking up more, laughing louder, and slowly letting people see the real me. I met people who inspired me, supported me, and saw strengths in me I hadn’t seen in myself. I eventually dropped basketball, but both volleyball and cheer became two of the most important things in my life. Some of the friendships I made on those teams lasted beyond high school and remain a big part of my life today.

Being part of something bigger than myself taught me the value of teamwork, leadership, and resilience. I learned how to show up for others, how to take constructive criticism, and how to carry myself with pride even when I make mistakes. Those lessons went far beyond the gym they helped shape who I am today. What felt like a small step at the time ended up being the start of a completely new chapter, one where I finally let myself grow.

If I could give the younger me one piece of advice, it would be this: Don’t be afraid to step out of your comfort zone. The fear won’t last, but the connections and confidence you build will. Coming out of my shell was the best thing that ever happened to me, and I only wish I had done it sooner.