SPANISH 3 • INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION (SPEAKING & LISTENING)

Describing Issues & Giving Advice — I can describe an issue and respond with advice or next steps using connected sentences.

Learn to articulate problems and offer thoughtful advice in Spanish using subjunctive mood and discourse connectors.

Why Describing Problems & Giving Advice Matters

The ability to describe a problem and offer advice is one of the most practical communicative functions in any language. In your everyday life, you do this constantly in English — you tell a friend about a conflict with a sibling, a teacher explains how to fix an essay, or a doctor recommends a treatment. In the study of interpersonal communication in Spanish, this skill has been a cornerstone of language curricula since the communicative approach to language teaching gained prominence in the late twentieth century. Before that era, students memorized grammar rules in isolation without learning how to apply them in real conversations.

1960s
Grammar-Translation Dominance
Language classes focused on translating sentences and memorizing verb charts. Students rarely practiced real conversational exchanges like describing problems or offering advice.
1970s–80s
Communicative Language Teaching (CLT)
Linguists like Dell Hymes introduced the idea of communicative competence — the ability to use language for real purposes, such as giving advice or solving problems together.
1999
ACTFL Standards Published
The American Council on the Teaching of Foreign Languages released the 5 Cs framework (Communication, Cultures, Connections, Comparisons, Communities), firmly establishing interpersonal speaking as a core goal.
2012–Present
Can-Do Statements & Proficiency Goals
ACTFL's Can-Do Statements guide modern curricula. At the Intermediate level, learners are expected to handle everyday transactions such as describing issues and responding with advice using connected sentences.

Today, the question is not just whether you can conjugate a verb correctly, but whether you can sustain a meaningful exchange — listen to someone's problem, show empathy, and propose a thoughtful next step. This lesson gives you the vocabulary, grammar structures, and discourse strategies to do exactly that.

Core Principles for Describing Issues & Giving Advice

Before diving into specific vocabulary and grammar, it helps to understand the foundational principles that make this kind of exchange work in Spanish. These principles apply whether you are talking about a personal issue, a school problem, or a hypothetical scenario.

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Name the Issue Clearly

Use precise vocabulary to identify the problem. Instead of a vague "Tengo un problema", say "Me duele la cabeza desde ayer" or "Tuve una discusión con mi amigo."
2

Connect Sentences with Discourse Markers

Move beyond choppy sentences by using connectors like porque, por eso, además, sin embargo, entonces. These words link your ideas and show logical relationships.
3

Use the Subjunctive for Advice

When giving advice, trigger the present subjunctive with phrases like "Te recomiendo que...", "Es importante que...", "Sugiero que..." This is a hallmark of the Intermediate-level Spanish speaker.
4

Show Empathy Before Advising

Good interpersonal communication includes empathy. Phrases like "Lo siento mucho", "Qué lástima", "Entiendo cómo te sientes" make the listener feel heard before you offer your suggestion.
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Propose Next Steps Concretely

Vague advice is unhelpful. Instead of "Deberías hacer algo", offer specifics: "Deberías hablar con el profesor después de clase y explicarle la situación."
KEY TAKEAWAY
Think of a good advice conversation like a sandwich: the empathy is the top slice of bread that makes the person feel safe, the advice with subjunctive is the filling that delivers real value, and the concrete next step is the bottom slice that holds everything together. Without all three layers, the conversation falls apart.

Visual Map: The Advice Conversation Flow

The following diagram maps the typical flow of a conversation in which one speaker describes an issue and the other responds with advice. Notice how the exchange moves through distinct phases — from presenting the problem, to expressing empathy, to offering a recommendation, and finally to confirming the next step.

This flowchart shows the six phases of a typical advice conversation. Speaker A begins by describing the issue, Speaker B responds with empathy and asks for clarification, Speaker A elaborates with connectors, Speaker B gives advice using the subjunctive, and both speakers confirm next steps.

Notice that the conversation is not a one-way lecture — it is an interactive exchange. Speaker B does not simply jump to advice; instead, they first acknowledge the problem, ask a follow-up question, and only then offer a recommendation. This mirrors real conversations in any language, but in Spanish you can demonstrate higher proficiency by using discourse connectors and the subjunctive mood to make your responses more cohesive and nuanced.

Key Grammar Structures: Subjunctive Triggers & Connectors

Two grammatical tools drive this communicative function. First, the present subjunctive allows you to make recommendations, express wishes, and suggest actions. Second, discourse connectors (also called transition words) link your sentences so they form a coherent paragraph rather than a list of disconnected thoughts.

Subjunctive Trigger Formulas

ADVICE FORMULA A
Te recomiendo que + [subjunctive verb]
Example: Te recomiendo que hables con tu consejera. (I recommend that you talk to your counselor.)
ADVICE FORMULA B
Es importante que + [subjunctive verb]
Example: Es importante que duermas más. (It's important that you sleep more.)
ADVICE FORMULA C
Sugiero que + [subjunctive verb]
Example: Sugiero que busques un tutor. (I suggest that you look for a tutor.)
CONDITIONAL ADVICE
Deberías + [infinitive verb]
Example: Deberías practicar todos los días. (You should practice every day.) Note: deberías uses the conditional tense, not the subjunctive. It takes an infinitive, making it simpler but slightly less formal.

Discourse Connectors for Cohesion

Common discourse connectors organized by communicative function
FunctionSpanish ConnectorEnglish Equivalent
Cause / Reasonporque, ya que, comobecause, since
Result / Consequencepor eso, entonces, así quetherefore, so
Additionademás, también, aparte de esoalso, besides, in addition
Contrastsin embargo, pero, aunquehowever, but, although
Sequenceprimero, luego, después, finalmentefirst, then, afterward, finally
💡 Pro Tip
A strong Intermediate-level response uses at least two different types of connectors (e.g., one for cause and one for result). This signals to a listener — or a grader on a speaking assessment — that you can organize your thoughts logically.

Essential Vocabulary by Topic Area

To describe an issue effectively, you need topic-specific vocabulary. The categories below cover the most common scenarios you will encounter in interpersonal speaking tasks at the Spanish 3 level. Each category includes vocabulary for both describing the problem and offering advice.

Five common topic domains for describing issues in Spanish 3. Each box contains phrases for stating the problem (top) and giving advice (bottom, in green).

You do not need to memorize every phrase on this chart. Instead, focus on learning two to three issue phrases and two to three advice phrases per topic area. This gives you flexibility to handle a wide range of prompts. The key is not quantity but your ability to combine these phrases with connectors and the subjunctive into multi-sentence responses.

Worked Example: A Complete Advice Conversation

Let's walk through a full conversation between two students. We will break it down step by step, identifying the grammar structures and connectors used at each stage. The scenario: your friend Marco tells you he's failing his math class.

Conversation: Advising Marco About His Math Grade
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Step 1 — Marco Describes the IssueMarco says: "Oye, tengo un problema serio. Saqué una F en mi examen de matemáticas porque no estudié lo suficiente. Además, mis padres van a estar muy enojados." Notice how Marco uses the connector porque (cause) and además (addition) to link three ideas into a coherent turn.
Connectors used: porque (cause), además (addition)
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Step 2 — You Show EmpathyYou respond: "Ay, lo siento mucho, Marco. Eso suena muy estresante. ¿Cuándo es el próximo examen?" Here you acknowledge his feelings (lo siento mucho), validate the emotion (eso suena muy estresante), and ask a clarifying question to gather more information before giving advice.
Empathy phrase + follow-up question to gather context
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Step 3 — Marco Provides More DetailMarco replies: "Es la próxima semana. Sin embargo, no entiendo los temas nuevos, por eso no sé por dónde empezar." Marco adds a contrast (sin embargo) and a result (por eso) to deepen his explanation.
New connectors: sin embargo (contrast), por eso (result)
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Step 4 — You Give Advice Using the SubjunctiveYou say: "Mira, te recomiendo que vayas a las horas de oficina del profesor. También, es importante que hagas un horario de estudio para que puedas repasar un poco cada día." This response features two subjunctive triggers (te recomiendo que and es importante que) plus connectors (también, para que). The advice is specific and actionable.
Subjunctive verbs: vayas, hagas, puedas — all correctly conjugated.
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Step 5 — Both Confirm Next StepsMarco responds: "Buena idea. Entonces, voy a hablar con el profesor mañana y voy a empezar a estudiar esta noche. ¡Gracias por el consejo!" The conversation closes naturally with the connector entonces and a concrete plan of action.
The exchange features 6+ connected sentences, 5 different connectors, and 3 subjunctive verbs — a strong Intermediate performance.

Common Strengths & Pitfalls in Advice Conversations

When you practice this kind of speaking task, certain patterns consistently separate strong responses from weaker ones. The table below highlights what evaluators — and real conversational partners — notice most.

Comparison of strong versus weak advice conversation features
FeatureStrong Response ✅Weak Response ❌
Sentence lengthMulti-clause sentences joined by connectors: "Saqué una mala nota porque no estudié, por eso estoy preocupado."Short, choppy sentences: "Saqué una mala nota. No estudié. Estoy preocupado."
Advice grammarSubjunctive: "Te recomiendo que hables con el profesor."Indicative or infinitive only: "Tienes que hablar con el profesor." (correct but basic)
Empathy"Lo siento mucho. Entiendo cómo te sientes." — validates feelings before advising.Jumps straight to advice: "Deberías estudiar más." — sounds dismissive.
Specificity"Sugiero que busques un tutor en línea y que practiques 30 minutos cada noche.""Deberías hacer algo." — too vague to be useful.
Variety of connectorsUses 3+ different types: porque, sin embargo, por eso, además.Relies on "y" and "pero" exclusively.
KEY TAKEAWAY
Think of connectors like the joints in your body — without them, your bones (ideas) just lie in a pile. With them, your skeleton can stand up and move. A response with three or more varied connectors and at least one subjunctive trigger moves your speaking from Novice-level listing to Intermediate-level narration and recommendation.

Connecting to Advanced Communication

The skills you are building now — describing issues and giving advice using connected sentences — form the foundation for more advanced interpersonal and presentational tasks. As you progress to Spanish 4, AP Spanish, and beyond, these same structures will evolve. The table below shows how each element deepens at higher levels.

How advice-giving skills develop from Spanish 3 to AP level
ElementSpanish 3 (Current)Spanish 4 / AP Level
Describing problemsPersonal, concrete issues (health, school, friends) in present and preterite tenseAbstract, societal issues (environment, inequality) using imperfect subjunctive and hypothetical language
Giving advicePresent subjunctive: "Te recomiendo que estudies."Imperfect subjunctive + conditional: "Si yo fuera tú, hablaría con el director."
ConnectorsBasic cause-effect and addition: porque, por eso, además, sin embargoSophisticated cohesion: no obstante, a pesar de que, en cuanto a, por lo tanto
Conversation length4–6 connected sentences per turnExtended discourse: 8–12 sentences with paragraph-level organization
Cultural awarenessAwareness that advice-giving styles vary by cultureIntegration of cultural perspectives: formal/informal register, tú vs. usted, directness norms across Spanish-speaking countries

If you master the present subjunctive triggers and basic connectors in this lesson, you will have a solid launching pad for the imperfect subjunctive (Si yo fuera tú...) and more nuanced discourse structures you will encounter next year. Think of this as building the first floor of a building — the upper stories depend entirely on how well this foundation is laid.

Practice Problems

The following five problems progress from conceptual understanding to critical thinking. For speaking-oriented tasks, write out your response as if you were speaking aloud. Aim for at least three connected sentences using connectors and subjunctive structures where appropriate.

PROBLEM 1CONCEPTUAL
Why do we use the subjunctive mood (not the indicative) after phrases like "Te recomiendo que..." and "Es importante que..."? Explain in your own words the difference in meaning between the indicative and subjunctive in the context of giving advice.
PROBLEM 2BASIC CALCULATION
Your friend says: "Estoy muy cansada. No dormí bien anoche." Write a response that includes: (a) one empathy phrase, (b) one piece of advice using a subjunctive trigger, and (c) one discourse connector.
PROBLEM 3INTERMEDIATE
Read the following issue and write a multi-sentence advice response using at least two different connectors and two different subjunctive triggers. Issue: "Tuve una pelea con mi mejor amigo porque él compartió mi secreto con otros estudiantes. Ahora no quiero hablar con él, pero lo extraño."
PROBLEM 4APPLIED
Imagine you are volunteering at a community center in a Spanish-speaking country. A teenager comes to you and says: "No sé qué estudiar en la universidad. Mis padres quieren que sea médico, pero a mí me gusta el arte. Estoy muy confundido." Write a full response (5+ sentences) that shows empathy, asks a follow-up question, and offers two specific pieces of advice.
PROBLEM 5CRITICAL THINKING
Consider the cultural dimension of advice-giving. In some Spanish-speaking cultures, it is more common to give direct, unsolicited advice, while in others (and in many English-speaking cultures), people prefer to be asked before offering suggestions. How might you adjust your advice-giving approach when speaking with someone from a culture different from your own? Write your response in Spanish (5+ sentences) and use at least three connectors and one subjunctive structure.

Lesson Summary

In this lesson, you learned to describe an issue clearly using precise, topic-specific vocabulary across five key domains: health, school, relationships, money, and family. You practiced connecting your ideas with discourse connectors such as porque, por eso, además, sin embargo, entonces to move beyond choppy sentences and build coherent, multi-clause turns. You explored the present subjunctive as the primary grammar structure for giving advice, triggered by expressions like te recomiendo que, es importante que, sugiero que, and you also used the conditional deberías + infinitive for a simpler alternative.

Strong advice conversations follow a clear flow: identify the issue, show empathy, ask clarifying questions, give specific advice using the subjunctive, and confirm concrete next steps. Remember that using at least three different connectors, one or more subjunctive triggers, and an empathy phrase before advising will elevate your response from basic to Intermediate-level proficiency — and prepare you well for the advanced structures you will encounter in Spanish 4 and AP Spanish.

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