SPANISH 2 • INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION (SPEAKING & LISTENING)

Giving Advice & Recommendations — I can ask for and give simple advice or recommendations using common expressions in familiar contexts.

Master the key Spanish expressions that let you ask for guidance and offer helpful suggestions in everyday conversations.

Why Giving Advice Matters in Spanish

Every language has developed its own unique ways to offer guidance, suggest courses of action, and help others make decisions. In Spanish, the art of dar consejos (giving advice) and hacer recomendaciones (making recommendations) draws on centuries of linguistic evolution. Spanish speakers use a rich set of grammatical structures — from the subjunctive mood to softening phrases — that reflect cultural norms of politeness and respect. Understanding these structures helps you communicate naturally and avoid sounding too blunt or too vague.

The expressions you will learn in this lesson are not random phrases; they evolved from Latin roots and were shaped by cultural expectations across the Spanish-speaking world. The timeline below highlights key moments in how advice-giving language developed in Spanish.

1200s
Medieval Counsel Tradition
Spanish texts like El Libro de los Consejos codified advice-giving language, using early forms of the subjunctive to express recommendations politely.
1492
Nebrija's Grammar Published
Antonio de Nebrija published the first grammar of Spanish, formalizing verb moods including the subjunctive, which is central to advice expressions like recomiendo que...
1700s
Real Academia Española Founded
The RAE standardized Spanish grammar, clarifying the distinction between direct commands (imperatives) and softer suggestions (subjunctive-based advice), which students still learn today.
2000s
Global Spanish & Digital Communication
With texting, social media, and global travel, advice-giving in Spanish has become more informal, but the core structures — deberías, te sugiero que, ¿por qué no...? — remain essential.

So why does this matter for you? Because asking for and giving advice is one of the most common real-world uses of a second language. Whether you are helping a friend choose a restaurant, recommending a movie, or asking someone what you should study, these expressions are the foundation of interpersonal communication in Spanish.

Core Expressions & Principles

Before diving into specific phrases, it helps to understand the foundational principles behind advice language in Spanish. These principles determine which verb forms you use, how direct your suggestion sounds, and how polite or casual your tone comes across. The four key ideas below serve as your guide to choosing the right expression for any situation.

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Asking for Advice

Use question phrases like ¿Qué me recomiendas? (What do you recommend?), ¿Qué debo hacer? (What should I do?), or ¿Qué me aconsejas? (What do you advise me?) to invite someone's guidance.
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Giving Direct Advice

Expressions like Debes / Deberías + infinitivo (You should...) and Tienes que + infinitivo (You have to...) convey strong, clear suggestions.
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Giving Soft Recommendations

Softer phrases like Te recomiendo que + subjuntivo (I recommend that you...), Te sugiero que + subjuntivo (I suggest that you...), and ¿Por qué no + presente? (Why don't you...?) feel more polite.
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Matching Formality to Context

Talking with a friend? Use forms and informal expressions. Speaking with a teacher, doctor, or someone older? Use usted forms to show respect. This register awareness is key to sounding natural.
KEY TAKEAWAY
Think of advice expressions as a volume knob. Turning it all the way up gives you strong commands like Tienes que estudiar (You have to study). Turning it down gives softer suggestions like ¿Por qué no estudias un poco más? (Why don't you study a little more?). Knowing where to set the volume depends on who you are talking to and how close you are to them — just like adjusting your tone in English when talking to a friend versus a teacher.

Visual Map of Advice Expressions

The diagram below organizes the most common advice and recommendation expressions on a spectrum from strongest (most direct) to softest (most polite). Understanding where each phrase falls on this spectrum helps you choose the right one for any situation.

This diagram shows how advice expressions range from strong, direct commands on the left (like Tienes que...) to softer, more polite suggestions on the right (like ¿Por qué no...?). The bottom row categorizes the most common ways to ask for advice.

Notice how the diagram distinguishes between expressions that take an infinitive (like Deberías estudiar) and those that require the present subjunctive (like Te recomiendo que estudies). This grammatical distinction is essential: whenever you see que after an advice expression, the next verb almost always needs to be in the subjunctive form. We will explore this more in Section 4.

How the Grammar Works

There are two main grammatical patterns for giving advice in Spanish. The first uses a conjugated verb followed directly by an infinitive. The second uses a trigger expression followed by que plus a verb in the present subjunctive. Understanding which pattern to use with each expression is the key to forming natural-sounding advice.

Pattern 1: Verb + Infinitive

INFINITIVE PATTERN
Conjugated Verb + Infinitivo
Used with: deber / deber en condicional (deberías) / tener que / hay que. Example: Deberías descansar más. (You should rest more.)

Pattern 2: Trigger Expression + que + Subjunctive

SUBJUNCTIVE PATTERN
Expresión de consejo + que + Verbo en subjuntivo
Used with: recomendar que / sugerir que / aconsejar que / es mejor que / es importante que. Example: Te sugiero que hables con el profesor. (I suggest that you talk to the teacher.)

Quick Subjunctive Refresher

For regular verbs, forming the present subjunctive is straightforward. Start with the yo form of the present indicative, drop the -o ending, and add the "opposite" vowel endings. For -ar verbs, use -e, -es, -e, -emos, -éis, -en. For -er / -ir verbs, use -a, -as, -a, -amos, -áis, -an. For example, hablar → hablo → habl- → hables (tú form).

Common advice expressions, their grammatical patterns, and examples
ExpressionPatternExampleTranslation
DebesVerb + infinitiveDebes comer bien.You must eat well.
DeberíasVerb + infinitiveDeberías dormir más.You should sleep more.
Tienes queVerb + infinitiveTienes que practicar.You have to practice.
Te recomiendo queTrigger + que + subjunctiveTe recomiendo que leas este libro.I recommend that you read this book.
Te sugiero queTrigger + que + subjunctiveTe sugiero que estudies más.I suggest that you study more.
Es mejor queTrigger + que + subjunctiveEs mejor que vayas al médico.It's better that you go to the doctor.
¿Por qué no...?Question + present indicative¿Por qué no hablas con ella?Why don't you talk to her?
⚠️ Watch Out!
A common mistake is using the indicative instead of the subjunctive after que. For instance, saying *Te recomiendo que estudias (indicative) is incorrect. The correct form is Te recomiendo que estudies (subjunctive). Remember: advice trigger + que = subjunctive!

Formal vs. Informal Register

One of the most important skills in Spanish communication is knowing when to use informal (tú) versus formal (usted) language. This distinction affects verb conjugation, pronoun choice, and even which expressions feel appropriate. The diagram below illustrates how the same advice changes depending on the relationship between speakers.

Side-by-side comparison of informal () and formal (usted) advice expressions. Notice how verb endings and pronouns change while the overall sentence structure stays the same.

As the diagram shows, the structure of each advice expression stays consistent between formal and informal registers. The main changes are the verb conjugation (second person versus third person usted) and the indirect object pronoun (te becomes le). If you can master the informal versions first, switching to formal is mostly a matter of adjusting those two elements.

Worked Example: A Conversation at School

Let's walk through a realistic scenario where two friends, Marta and Diego, have a conversation. Diego is stressed about an upcoming exam, and Marta gives him advice. We will break down each line to see how the expressions work in context.

Dialogue: Marta Helps Diego Before an Exam
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Step 1 — Diego Asks for AdviceDiego says: "Marta, tengo un examen mañana y no sé qué hacer. ¿Qué me aconsejas?" (Marta, I have a test tomorrow and I don't know what to do. What do you advise me?) Here Diego uses ¿Qué me aconsejas?, a direct way to request advice from a friend.
Expression used: ¿Qué me aconsejas? (asking for advice, informal)
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Step 2 — Marta Gives Strong AdviceMarta replies: "Primero, deberías organizar tus apuntes." (First, you should organize your notes.) She uses deberías + infinitive, which is a moderate suggestion — stronger than a mere idea, but softer than a command.
Pattern: deberías + organizar (infinitive)
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Step 3 — Marta Adds a Softer RecommendationMarta continues: "También te sugiero que repases los capítulos tres y cuatro." (I also suggest that you review chapters three and four.) Notice how te sugiero que triggers the subjunctive: repases (from repasar), not *repasas.
Pattern: te sugiero que + repases (subjunctive)
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Step 4 — Marta Offers a Casual SuggestionMarta finishes: "¿Y por qué no estudias con Lucía? Ella sabe mucho de este tema." (And why don't you study with Lucía? She knows a lot about this topic.) The phrase ¿Por qué no...? followed by the present indicative estudias is the friendliest, most casual way to suggest something.
Pattern: ¿Por qué no + estudias (present indicative)?
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Step 5 — Diego RespondsDiego answers: "¡Buena idea! Gracias por el consejo." (Good idea! Thanks for the advice.) A natural and polite way to accept advice. Other options include Tienes razón (You're right) or Voy a hacer eso (I'm going to do that).
Useful response phrases: ¡Buena idea! / Tienes razón. / Gracias por el consejo.
💬 CONVERSATION TIP
Notice how Marta naturally varied her expressions, moving from a moderate suggestion (deberías) to a softer one (te sugiero que) to a casual idea (¿por qué no...?). In real conversations, mixing different levels of advice keeps your speech sounding natural — just like in English you might say "You should..." then "Maybe try..." then "What about...?" in the same conversation.

Strengths & Pitfalls of Each Expression

Not every advice expression is interchangeable. Each one carries a different tone and level of directness. Using the wrong one can make you sound bossy, too tentative, or awkward. The table below compares the main expressions by their strengths, limitations, and best contexts.

Comparing advice expressions by tone, limitations, and ideal contexts
ExpressionStrengthPitfallBest Context
Tienes que + inf.Very clear; leaves no doubt about urgencyCan sound pushy or commanding with acquaintancesClose friends, urgent situations, parents to children
Debes + inf.Direct and authoritative; conveys obligationMay feel moralistic or preachyWhen something is genuinely important (health, safety)
Deberías + inf.Polite yet firm; the conditional softens the toneSlightly less urgent; may not be taken seriously enoughGeneral advice between peers or from advisor to advisee
Te recomiendo que + subj.Respectful and warm; implies personal experienceRequires subjunctive — more complex grammarRestaurants, travel tips, class choices, any recommendation
Te sugiero que + subj.Very polite; gives the listener freedom to declineCan sound too tentative when strong advice is neededProfessional settings, writing, formal conversations
¿Por qué no + pres.?Friendly, low-pressure, conversationalMay not feel serious enough for important mattersCasual suggestions between friends
KEY TAKEAWAY
Choosing an advice expression in Spanish is like choosing a tool from a toolbox. A hammer (Tienes que...) gets the job done quickly but can cause damage if used carelessly. A fine screwdriver (Te sugiero que...) is precise and elegant but might be too delicate when you need force. The best communicators know which tool to reach for depending on the situation — and that skill comes from practice.

Connection to Advanced Communication

The advice expressions you have learned in this lesson are your entry point into a much larger world of Spanish communication. As you advance, you will encounter more nuanced ways to give guidance, express opinions, and persuade others. The table below shows how these foundational structures connect to topics you will study in Spanish 3 and beyond.

How Spanish 2 advice expressions connect to advanced topics
What You Know Now (Spanish 2)What's Coming Next (Spanish 3+)
Deberías + infinitiveThe full conditional mood: Yo que tú, hablaría con ella (If I were you, I would talk to her)
Te recomiendo que + present subjunctiveImperfect subjunctive for past advice: Te recomendé que estudiaras (I recommended that you study)
Simple advice in familiar contextsPersuasive essays and debates using Es imprescindible que..., Es fundamental que...
Choosing between informal and formal registerRegional variations: vos forms in Argentina, vosotros in Spain, plus cultural norms for directness
¿Por qué no + present indicative?Hypothetical suggestions: ¿Y si fuéramos al cine? (What if we went to the movies?)

The good news is that once you feel confident with the expressions in this lesson, the advanced structures are natural extensions. The present subjunctive you are practicing now is the gateway to the imperfect subjunctive, and the conditional form deberías is your first taste of the full conditional mood. Every structure you internalize now makes the next level easier.

Practice Problems

Test your understanding of advice and recommendation expressions with the five problems below. They increase in difficulty, starting with basic recall and building toward real-world application.

PROBLEM 1CONCEPTUAL
What is the key grammatical difference between Deberías estudiar and Te recomiendo que estudies? Why does the verb form change in the second sentence?
PROBLEM 2BASIC
Complete the sentence with the correct verb form: "Te sugiero que ______ (hablar) con tu profesor sobre la tarea."
PROBLEM 3INTERMEDIATE
Your friend says: "Estoy aburrido este fin de semana. ¿Qué me recomiendas?" Write two different responses — one using deberías + infinitive and one using te recomiendo que + subjunctive.
PROBLEM 4APPLIED
You are at a restaurant with a visiting exchange student's parent (an adult you don't know well). They ask: "¿Qué plato me recomienda?" Write a response using the appropriate register and at least two advice expressions.
PROBLEM 5CRITICAL THINKING
Imagine a scenario where using Tienes que ir al médico would be appropriate, and another scenario where it would be too strong. Explain why, and suggest a better expression for the second scenario. Write all examples in Spanish with English translations.

Lesson Summary

In this lesson, you learned how to ask for advice using expressions like ¿Qué me recomiendas?, ¿Qué me aconsejas?, and ¿Qué debo hacer?. You also mastered how to give advice ranging from strong commands (Tienes que + infinitive, Debes + infinitive) to moderate suggestions (Deberías + infinitive) to soft, polite recommendations (Te recomiendo que + subjunctive, Te sugiero que + subjunctive, ¿Por qué no + present indicative?).

The two core grammar patterns are conjugated verb + infinitive (used with deber, tener que) and trigger expression + que + present subjunctive (used with recomendar, sugerir, aconsejar, es mejor). You learned to match your formality level to the situation by choosing between and usted forms. These skills prepare you for more advanced communication, including the full conditional mood and the imperfect subjunctive in Spanish 3.

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