CONVERSATIONAL GREEK • INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION (SPEAKING & LISTENING)

Expressing Likes, Dislikes & Preferences — I can express likes, dislikes, and preferences about common topics (food, activities, places) in conversation.

Learn to share your opinions naturally in Greek using key verbs, structures, and conversation patterns.

Historical Context & Motivation

Greek is one of the oldest continuously spoken languages in the world, with a written record stretching back over three thousand years. The way Greeks express opinions, emotions, and personal tastes has evolved considerably from the epic poetry of Homer to the cafés of modern Athens. Understanding how to say what you like and dislike is not just a grammar exercise — it is a gateway into authentic interpersonal communication. In everyday Greek life, sharing preferences about food, activities, and places is one of the most common ways people connect socially.

Modern Greek, or Νέα Ελληνικά (Néa Elliniká), became the official language of the Greek state in the 19th century after a long debate between the formal literary register (Katharevousa) and the everyday spoken language (Dimotiki). Today's conversational Greek descends directly from Dimotiki, which means the phrases you will learn in this lesson reflect how real people actually talk. The verb structures for expressing likes and preferences are among the first things a Greek child masters, and they remain central to adult conversation.

~800 BCE
Homeric Greek
Ancient Greeks expressed preferences using verbs like φιλέω (to love) and ἥδομαι (to take pleasure in), often with the dative case.
~300 CE
Koine Greek Simplification
Koine Greek streamlined many case forms. The impersonal construction "it pleases me" began replacing older personal verb forms, foreshadowing the modern μου αρέσει structure.
1976
Dimotiki Becomes Official
Greece officially adopted Dimotiki (the people's everyday language) for education and government, making conversational phrases like μ'αρέσει the standard in schools.
2000s–Present
Modern Conversational Greek
Social media and globalization have introduced loanwords and informal registers. Expressing preferences now includes slang, English borrowings, and shortened texting forms alongside traditional constructions.

The central question this lesson addresses is practical: How do you tell someone in Greek what you enjoy, what you avoid, and what you prefer — and sound natural doing it? Mastering these structures will allow you to navigate menus, suggest weekend plans, and hold your own in the kinds of friendly debates that Greeks love.

Core Principles & Key Structures

Before diving into specific phrases, you need to understand a few foundational ideas about how Greek handles the concept of "liking." Unlike English, where "I like" uses a standard subject-verb-object pattern, Greek relies heavily on an impersonal construction. The verb αρέσει (arési) literally means "it pleases," so when you say Μου αρέσει το παγωτό, you are literally saying "Ice cream pleases me." This reversal of subject and object is the single most important grammatical concept in this lesson.

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Μου αρέσει / Μου αρέσουν (I like)

Use μου αρέσει (mou arési) for a single thing and μου αρέσουν (mou arésoun) for plural things. The pronoun changes for each person: σου (you), του/της (he/she), μας (we), σας (you formal/plural), τους (they).
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Δεν μου αρέσει (I don't like)

Negation is simple: place δεν (den) before the pronoun. Δεν μου αρέσει η βροχή means "I don't like the rain." For stronger dislike, add καθόλου (kathólou) — "at all."
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Προτιμώ (I prefer)

The verb προτιμώ (protimó) is a regular first-person verb meaning "I prefer." It follows the standard subject-verb pattern: Προτιμώ τον καφέ από το τσάι (I prefer coffee over tea). Use από (apó) for "over/than."
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Λατρεύω & Μισώ (Love & Hate)

For strong feelings, use λατρεύω (latrévo) meaning "I love/adore" and μισώ (misó) meaning "I hate." These are personal verbs and conjugate normally: λατρεύω, λατρεύεις, λατρεύει, etc.
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Intensity Modifiers

Greek has a rich set of adverbs to shade your opinion: πολύ (polí) = very/a lot, πάρα πολύ (pára polí) = very much, λίγο (lígo) = a little. These let you express nuance, not just binary yes/no opinions.
KEY TAKEAWAY
Think of the Greek verb αρέσει like the Spanish verb gustar. Just as Spanish says Me gusta la pizza ("Pizza pleases me"), Greek says Μου αρέσει η πίτσα. The thing you like is the grammatical subject, and you are the indirect object. If you have studied any Romance language, this pattern will feel familiar. If not, imagine someone handing you a gift — the gift (subject) is doing the pleasing, and you (object) are receiving the pleasure.

Visual Explanation — The Structure Map

The diagram below maps out the three main sentence patterns you will use to express likes, dislikes, and preferences in Greek. Notice how the impersonal construction (μου αρέσει) reverses the typical English word order, while personal verbs like προτιμώ and λατρεύω follow the familiar Subject–Verb–Object order.

The three core sentence patterns for expressing likes, dislikes, and preferences in Modern Greek. Pattern 1 (impersonal) reverses the English subject-object order. Pattern 2 adds negation with δεν. Pattern 3 (personal verb) follows standard subject-verb-object word order.

As you study the diagram, pay attention to the color coding. The purple boxes mark indirect object pronouns (μου, σου, etc.), the cyan boxes mark the verb, and the pink boxes mark the thing being liked or preferred. In Pattern 1, the pink box is actually the grammatical subject, even though in English it would be the object. This "flip" is the key concept to internalize.

How It Works — Verb Conjugation & Pronoun System

To use these constructions fluently, you need to master two things: the weak pronoun forms (the short indirect object pronouns placed before the verb) and the conjugation of key verbs. Let us examine each in detail.

Weak Indirect Object Pronouns

Weak indirect object pronouns used with αρέσει / αρέσουν
PersonGreek PronounPronunciationExample
I (1st sg.)μουmouΜου αρέσει η μουσική.
You (2nd sg.)σουsouΣου αρέσει ο χορός;
He/She/It (3rd sg.)του / της / τουtou / tis / touΤης αρέσει η θάλασσα.
We (1st pl.)μαςmasΜας αρέσουν τα σουβλάκια.
You (2nd pl./formal)σαςsasΣας αρέσει η Αθήνα;
They (3rd pl.)τουςtousΤους αρέσει το ποδόσφαιρο.

Conjugating Key Verbs

The verb αρέσω is rarely conjugated in all persons because the impersonal forms (αρέσει, αρέσουν) handle most situations. However, the personal verbs προτιμώ, λατρεύω, and μισώ require full conjugation. Here are the present tense forms:

Present tense conjugation of three key personal verbs
Personπροτιμώ (prefer)λατρεύω (love/adore)μισώ (hate)
εγώ (I)προτιμώλατρεύωμισώ
εσύ (you)προτιμάςλατρεύειςμισείς
αυτός/ή/ό (he/she/it)προτιμά(ει)λατρεύειμισεί
εμείς (we)προτιμάμε / προτιμούμελατρεύουμεμισούμε
εσείς (you pl./formal)προτιμάτελατρεύετεμισείτε
αυτοί/ές/ά (they)προτιμούν / προτιμάνελατρεύουν(ε)μισούν(ε)
🔊 Pronunciation Tip
Greek stress is marked by an accent mark (τόνος). Always emphasize the syllable with the accent: προτιμώ (pro-tee-MO), λατρεύω (la-TREV-o), μισώ (mee-SO). Getting the stress right makes a huge difference in how natural you sound.

Vocabulary & Phrases by Topic

Now that you know the grammatical structures, let us build your vocabulary across the three major conversation topics: food (φαγητό), activities (δραστηριότητες), and places (μέρη). The following diagram organizes essential phrases you can use right away in conversation.

A vocabulary map organized by three conversation topics. Each column shows example sentences using different structures (μου αρέσει, λατρεύω, δεν μου αρέσει, προτιμώ) and lists essential nouns and verbs for that topic.
💡 Using να (na) with Activities
When you like doing an activity (rather than a thing), you use να + verb after αρέσει. For example: Μου αρέσει να κολυμπάω (I like to swim / I like swimming). The particle να functions somewhat like "to" in English infinitives, but it is followed by a conjugated verb, not an infinitive form. Greek does not have infinitives in the way English does.

Worked Example — Building a Mini-Conversation

Let us walk through a realistic conversation between two friends, Γιώργος (Yiorgos) and Μαρία (Maria), who are deciding where to eat and what to do this weekend. We will break down each sentence to show how the grammar works in practice.

Weekend Plans: A Step-by-Step Dialogue
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Step 1 — Γιώργος asks about food preferencesΓιώργος says: «Σου αρέσει η ιταλική κουζίνα;» (Sou arési i italikí kouzína?) — "Do you like Italian cuisine?" Notice the question uses the pronoun σου (to you) + αρέσει (it pleases) + the subject η ιταλική κουζίνα. In Greek, yes/no questions often have the same word order as statements — only intonation changes.
Structure: σου + αρέσει + subject (singular noun)
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Step 2 — Μαρία responds with a preferenceΜαρία says: «Ναι, μου αρέσει, αλλά προτιμώ την ελληνική κουζίνα.» (Ne, mou arési, alá protimó tin ellinikí kouzína.) — "Yes, I like it, but I prefer Greek cuisine." She first confirms using the impersonal construction, then switches to the personal verb προτιμώ with the accusative case την ελληνική κουζίνα (the Greek cuisine, as a direct object).
Combines impersonal + personal verb in one sentence
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Step 3 — Γιώργος suggests an activityΓιώργος says: «Ωραία! Μετά το φαγητό, σου αρέσει να περπατάς;» (Oréa! Metá to fayitó, sou arési na perpatás?) — "Great! After the meal, do you like walking?" Here the activity uses να περπατάς (na perpatás — to walk, conjugated for "you"). Remember: after να, the verb is conjugated to match the person doing the action.
Structure: σου αρέσει + να + conjugated verb (2nd person)
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Step 4 — Μαρία states a dislike and suggests an alternativeΜαρία says: «Δεν μου αρέσει πολύ να περπατάω. Λατρεύω να πηγαίνω στην παραλία!» (Den mou arési polí na perpatáo. Latrévo na pigéno stin paralía!) — "I don't much like walking. I love going to the beach!" Notice the negation δεν comes first, the modifier πολύ softens the dislike, and λατρεύω expresses a strong positive preference for the beach.
Combines soft dislike (δεν...πολύ) with strong like (λατρεύω)
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Step 5 — Γιώργος agrees and wraps upΓιώργος says: «Τέλεια! Κι εμένα μου αρέσει πάρα πολύ η θάλασσα. Πάμε!» (Télia! Ki eména mou arési pára polí i thálasa. Páme!) — "Perfect! I also really love the sea. Let's go!" Here he uses the emphatic form κι εμένα (me too / and for me) along with the intensifier πάρα πολύ to show enthusiastic agreement.
Emphatic agreement: κι εμένα + μου αρέσει + πάρα πολύ
💬 CONVERSATION FLOW
Real Greek conversations about preferences flow like a tennis match: one person asks or states an opinion, and the other responds by agreeing, disagreeing, or offering an alternative. The key is to mix structures naturally — use μου αρέσει for general likes, προτιμώ when comparing, and λατρεύω/μισώ for strong feelings. Throw in intensity adverbs like πάρα πολύ or καθόλου to add personality.

Common Mistakes & How to Avoid Them

Even motivated language learners make predictable mistakes when first expressing preferences in Greek. Understanding these common pitfalls now will save you from developing bad habits that are harder to fix later. The table below compares typical errors with the correct forms and explains why each mistake happens.

Five common errors when expressing likes and preferences in Greek
❌ Common Mistake✅ Correct FormWhy It's Wrong
Εγώ αρέσω τη σοκολάτα.Μου αρέσει η σοκολάτα.You cannot use αρέσει like English "I like." It is impersonal — the chocolate pleases you, not you like the chocolate.
Μου αρέσει τα φρούτα.Μου αρέσουν τα φρούτα.Plural subjects require the plural verb αρέσουν, not the singular αρέσει. The verb agrees with the thing liked, not with you.
Μου αρέσει να κολυμπάει.Μου αρέσει να κολυμπάω.After να, the verb must match the person who does the action. Since μου = I, the verb must be in the 1st person: κολυμπάω (not 3rd person κολυμπάει).
Προτιμώ καφέ παρά τσάι.Προτιμώ τον καφέ από το τσάι."Than/over" in preferences is από, not παρά. Also, nouns need their definite articles (τον, το) in most conversational contexts.
Δεν αρέσει μου.Δεν μου αρέσει.The weak pronoun (μου) must come before the verb, not after it. The order is always: δεν + pronoun + verb.
⚠️ REMEMBER THIS RULE
The number one mistake English speakers make is treating αρέσει like a normal verb with a subject "I." Always ask yourself: "What is the thing doing the pleasing?" That thing is the grammatical subject and determines whether you use αρέσει (singular) or αρέσουν (plural). You are always the indirect object, expressed by the weak pronoun (μου, σου, etc.).

Connecting to Advanced Expression

Once you are comfortable with the basics of expressing likes and preferences, you can begin to explore more sophisticated ways to share opinions. Advanced Greek conversation uses conditional structures, subjunctive moods, and nuanced vocabulary that lets you express degrees of enthusiasm, ambivalence, and qualified preferences. The table below previews how basic structures map onto more advanced ones.

How basic preference structures evolve into advanced expression
Basic Level (This Lesson)Advanced Level (Future Lessons)
Μου αρέσει η πίτσα. (I like pizza.)Θα μου άρεσε να δοκιμάσω αυθεντική πίτσα στη Νάπολη. (I would like to try authentic pizza in Naples.) — Conditional mood
Προτιμώ τον καφέ. (I prefer coffee.)Αν και μου αρέσει το τσάι, τείνω να προτιμώ τον καφέ. (Although I like tea, I tend to prefer coffee.) — Concessive clause
Δεν μου αρέσει η βροχή. (I don't like rain.)Η βροχή με ενοχλεί / δεν μου κάνει. (Rain bothers me / doesn't suit me.) — Alternate expressions
Λατρεύω τα νησιά. (I love the islands.)Τα νησιά με συναρπάζουν / είμαι τρελός/ή για τα νησιά. (The islands fascinate me / I'm crazy about the islands.) — Idiomatic expressions

As you continue studying Greek, you will also encounter the past tense of these constructions (μου άρεσε = I liked, μου άρεσαν = I liked [plural things]) and the conditional (θα μου άρεσε = I would like). These tenses allow you to discuss past experiences ("I loved the food in Crete") and hypothetical desires ("I would prefer to go in summer"). For now, focus on mastering the present tense — it covers the vast majority of everyday preference conversations.

🇬🇷 Cultural Note
Greeks are famously passionate about expressing opinions — especially about food and places! In Greek culture, saying είναι εντάξει (it's okay) about a meal can actually come across as lukewarm or slightly rude. Don't be afraid to use strong expressions like λατρεύω (I adore it) or είναι φανταστικό (it's fantastic). Enthusiasm is expected and appreciated.

Practice Problems

Test your understanding of the structures, vocabulary, and conversation patterns from this lesson. Each problem increases in difficulty, moving from basic recall to creative conversation building.

PROBLEM 1CONCEPTUAL
Explain in your own words why the Greek sentence Μου αρέσει η μουσική has a different grammatical structure from the English sentence "I like music." What is the subject of the Greek sentence, and what is the subject of the English sentence?
PROBLEM 2BASIC
Translate the following sentences into Greek: (a) "I like chocolate." (b) "She doesn't like the city." (c) "We prefer the beach."
PROBLEM 3INTERMEDIATE
A friend asks you: «Τι σου αρέσει να κάνεις το Σαββατοκύριακο;» (What do you like to do on the weekend?) Write a response in Greek that includes: (1) something you love doing, (2) something you don't like doing, and (3) a preference between two activities. Use at least three different verb constructions.
PROBLEM 4APPLIED
You are at a restaurant in Athens with a Greek-speaking friend. The waiter asks «Τι θα θέλατε;» (What would you like?). Your friend turns to you and says «Σου αρέσει ο μουσακάς ή προτιμάς σουβλάκι;» Write a 3–4 sentence reply in Greek where you express your preference, explain why, and suggest a drink you both might enjoy.
PROBLEM 5CRITICAL THINKING
Consider this scenario: A Greek exchange student has just arrived at your school and you want to get to know them. Write a mini-dialogue (6–8 lines) in Greek where you ask about their preferences regarding (a) food they miss from Greece, (b) activities they enjoy, and (c) places they would like to visit in your country. Use a variety of structures (μου αρέσει, προτιμώ, λατρεύω, δεν μου αρέσει) and include at least two intensity modifiers. Then explain in English which structures you chose and why.

Lesson Summary

In this lesson, you learned to express likes, dislikes, and preferences in Modern Greek across three essential topics. The impersonal construction μου αρέσει / μου αρέσουν is the core structure, where the thing liked is the grammatical subject and you are the indirect object (μου, σου, της, etc.). Negation is formed with δεν + pronoun + αρέσει, and you can strengthen it with καθόλου (at all). For comparing options, use the personal verb προτιμώ + από (I prefer... over...). Strong emotions are expressed with λατρεύω (I love/adore) and μισώ (I hate), both of which conjugate as standard personal verbs.

For activities, pair these verbs with να + conjugated verb (e.g., μου αρέσει να κολυμπάω). Shade your opinions using intensity modifiers: πολύ, πάρα πολύ, λίγο. Remember the key grammar rule: the verb αρέσει/αρέσουν agrees with the thing liked (singular vs. plural), not with the person. With these tools — covering food (φαγητό), activities (δραστηριότητες), and places (μέρη) — you can hold a natural, engaging conversation about your personal preferences in Greek.

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