Adult ESL/ELL Advanced • Interpersonal Communication (Speaking & Listening)

Summarizing Agreements & Next Steps — I can summarize and confirm agreements, decisions, or next steps at the end of a discussion.

Master the language strategies that ensure every discussion ends with shared clarity and actionable outcomes.

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Historical Context & Motivation

The practice of formally summarizing agreements at the end of a discussion has deep roots in both diplomatic and commercial communication traditions. Long before the modern workplace meeting, ancient civilizations recognized that the success of any negotiation depended not only on reaching consensus, but on ensuring that all parties left with an identical understanding of what had been decided. Misunderstandings at the conclusion of high-stakes talks — whether between nations, merchant guilds, or scholarly communities — have historically led to conflicts, broken contracts, and wasted effort. The evolution of summarizing conventions mirrors humanity's broader effort to manage information, reduce ambiguity, and create systems of mutual accountability.

3000 BCE • Sumerian Clay Tablets

Mesopotamian traders inscribed summaries of trade agreements on clay tablets, establishing one of the earliest traditions of written confirmation records to prevent future disputes between parties.

1648 • Treaty of Westphalia

Diplomats developed standardized protocols for reading back negotiated terms aloud before signing, recognizing that oral recapitulation was critical when parties spoke different languages.

1950s • Corporate Meeting Culture

The rise of multinational corporations introduced formalized action items and meeting minutes, making end-of-meeting summaries a standard business practice worldwide.

1990s • Communicative Language Teaching

ESL/ELL pedagogy began explicitly teaching discourse management strategies, including summarizing, as a measurable interpersonal communication skill for advanced learners.

2020s • Remote & Cross-Cultural Teams

Virtual meetings across time zones and cultures have amplified the need for explicit summarizing and next-step confirmation to bridge linguistic and contextual gaps.

Today, the ability to summarize and confirm decisions at the close of a discussion is recognized as a core pragmatic competency for advanced English learners. Whether you are participating in an academic seminar, a professional meeting, or a collaborative project, mastering this skill helps you ensure clarity, demonstrate leadership, and avoid the costly misunderstandings that arise when participants walk away with different assumptions about what was agreed upon. The central question this lesson addresses is: What specific language structures, discourse strategies, and interactional techniques do advanced English speakers use to effectively close a discussion with a clear, shared summary of agreements and next steps?

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Core Principles & Definitions

Effective summarizing at the end of a discussion is more than simply repeating what was said; it is a sophisticated act of discourse synthesis that requires the speaker to identify the essential points of agreement, distinguish them from unresolved issues, and restate them in concise, unambiguous language. The following foundational principles guide this communicative act, whether you are summarizing in a classroom discussion, a job interview follow-up, or a team planning session.

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Signal the Transition

Use explicit discourse markers such as "So, to summarize..." or "Before we wrap up, let me go over what we've agreed on" to signal that the discussion is shifting from deliberation to closure.
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Distill to Essentials

Identify and restate only the key decisions and action items, filtering out tangential points. Effective summaries reduce complexity without distorting meaning.
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Attribute Responsibility

Clearly assign each action item to a specific person or group using naming and hedging strategies: "Maria, you'll draft the proposal by Friday" or "We agreed that the marketing team will handle outreach."
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Confirm & Invite Correction

After restating the summary, use confirmation checks such as "Does that match everyone's understanding?" or "Did I miss anything?" to ensure shared agreement and open the floor for corrections.
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Specify Timelines & Deliverables

Effective next steps include concrete deadlines and measurable outcomes. Vague statements like "We'll follow up soon" should be refined to "We'll send the revised draft by Tuesday at 5 PM."
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KEY TAKEAWAY

Think of summarizing agreements like a pilot's pre-landing checklist. Before a plane touches down, the pilot and co-pilot verbally confirm every critical system — landing gear, flaps, airspeed — even though they have been monitoring these instruments throughout the flight. This redundancy is not wasteful; it is the mechanism that prevents catastrophic error. Similarly, an end-of-discussion summary is your verbal checklist — it catches misalignments before they become real problems.

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Visual Explanation: The Summary Cycle

The Discussion-to-Summary Cycle1. DISCUSSExchange ideas,debate options2. DECIDEReach consensusor vote3. SIGNAL"Let me summarizewhat we've agreed on..."4. SUMMARIZERestate decisions,assign tasks, set dates5. CONFIRM"Does everyone agree?"Invite corrections6. ACTFollow through oncommitted next stepsKEY LANGUAGE AT EACH STAGESIGNAL:"So to wrap up..." / "Let me recap..." / "Before we close..."RESTATE:"We agreed that..." / "The key decisions are..." / "Our plan is to..."CONFIRM:"Does that capture everything?" / "Any corrections?" / "Is that right?"COMMIT:"I'll send the notes by..." / "Let's reconvene on..." / "Our deadline is..."
The diagram above illustrates the six-stage cycle of discussion closure. Notice that the process moves from open-ended discussion through decision-making to the critical closing stages of signaling, summarizing, confirming, and finally acting. The bottom panel provides sample phrases for each stage.

The visual above reveals a crucial insight: summarizing is not a single speech act but a sequence of interconnected moves. Advanced English speakers do not simply blurt out a list of decisions; they first signal the transition to alert listeners that the mode of interaction is changing from brainstorming to synthesis. They then restate the essential agreements using clear, declarative language before explicitly inviting confirmation or correction. This sequence mirrors what linguists call a closing sequence in conversation analysis — a patterned set of turns that participants collaboratively use to bring an interaction to an orderly close. When you master this sequence as a non-native speaker, you demonstrate not only linguistic proficiency but also sophisticated interactional competence.

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Mechanism: Language Structures for Summarizing

Because this is a language-focused skill rather than a mathematical one, the "mechanism" here consists of the specific grammatical structures, pragmatic strategies, and functional phrases that advanced English speakers deploy when closing a discussion. Understanding these structures at a granular level allows you to move beyond rote memorization of set phrases toward genuinely flexible, context-appropriate production.

Discourse Markers for Transitioning to the Summary

The first mechanism is the use of metadiscursive markers — phrases that comment on the conversation itself rather than on its content. These markers serve a dual function: they signal to listeners that a summary is coming, and they establish the speaker's authority to deliver that summary. Common examples include "So, to bring everything together..." "Let me quickly run through what we've decided..." and "Just to make sure we're all on the same page..." Notice that many of these phrases use the inclusive pronoun "we" rather than "I," which frames the summary as a collaborative product rather than an individual interpretation. This strategic use of inclusive language is a hallmark of face-saving politeness in English-language pragmatics.

Reported Speech & Paraphrasing

When restating what was agreed, effective summarizers employ reported speech and paraphrasing rather than direct quotation. Instead of saying "John said, 'I will finish the report by Friday,'" a summarizer might say "John agreed to complete the report by Friday." This shift from direct to indirect speech serves two functions: it condenses the information and it transforms a personal statement into a shared commitment. The grammatical shift from present tense ("I will") to past-tense reporting ("agreed to") also subtly signals that the decision has already been made — it is no longer under discussion. Advanced learners should also note the strategic use of performative verbs like "agreed," "decided," "committed," and "resolved," which carry more weight than neutral reporting verbs like "said" or "mentioned."

Enumeration & Organizational Markers

Skilled summarizers organize their recap using enumeration markers such as "First,..." "Second,..." "Finally,..." or "There are three main points." This technique provides a cognitive scaffold for listeners, helping them track the summary and verify its completeness. In longer discussions, you might also use topic-fronting ("Regarding the budget, we agreed to..." "As for the timeline, we decided...") to organize the summary thematically rather than chronologically. Both strategies reflect a high level of discourse competence and are characteristic of professional English in academic, business, and institutional settings.

Confirmation Checks & Repair Strategies

The final mechanism involves confirmation checks — questions or prompts that invite the other participants to validate the summary or flag any discrepancies. These range from direct questions ("Does that sound accurate?") to softer invitations ("Please correct me if I've missed anything"). If a participant identifies an error or omission, the summarizer must execute a repair sequence: acknowledge the correction, incorporate it, and re-confirm. Phrases like "Good catch — let me revise that" or "You're right, I should add that we also agreed to..." demonstrate linguistic flexibility and interpersonal sensitivity.

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Detailed Breakdown: Phrase Bank by Function

Advanced English learners benefit enormously from having a well-organized phrase bank that they can draw from when summarizing agreements and next steps. The phrases below are classified by communicative function and register — from semi-formal (appropriate for academic discussions or workplace meetings) to formal (appropriate for high-stakes negotiations or official proceedings). As your proficiency grows, you will naturally select and combine these phrases with increasing flexibility.

Functional Phrase Map for SummarizingOPENING / SIGNALINGSemi-formal:• "Okay, so let me just go over what we've decided."• "Before we finish, let me recap the key points."• "So to sum up our discussion..."Formal:• "Allow me to summarize the outcomes of today's session."• "To conclude, I'd like to outline our key resolutions."• "In closing, let us review the decisions reached."RESTATING DECISIONSSemi-formal:• "We agreed that... / We decided to..."• "The plan is to... / Our next step is to..."• "So [name] will take care of... by [date]."Formal:• "It has been resolved that..."• "The committee has agreed upon the following..."• "The consensus reached is that..."CONFIRMING / CHECKINGSemi-formal:• "Does that cover everything?"• "Did I miss anything?"• "Is everyone comfortable with this?"Formal:• "Are there any objections or amendments?"• "May I confirm that this accurately reflects...?"• "Does this summary meet with your approval?"ASSIGNING NEXT STEPSSemi-formal:• "So [name], you'll handle... by [date]."• "I'll follow up with an email by tomorrow."• "Let's plan to meet again on [day]."Formal:• "The action item assigned to [name] is..."• "The deadline for deliverables is [date]."• "A follow-up session has been scheduled for..."
This phrase map organizes key expressions by their four communicative functions: opening/signaling (top left), restating decisions (top right), confirming/checking (bottom left), and assigning next steps (bottom right). Each quadrant provides examples at two register levels.

A common mistake among intermediate-level speakers is relying on a single formula — for instance, always beginning with "So, in conclusion..." Truly advanced communicators vary their language strategically. In a casual study group, you might say "Alright, so here's what we're doing." In a formal committee meeting, you might say "To conclude, I would like to outline the key resolutions we have reached today." The register flexibility demonstrated by choosing the right formality level for the context is one of the clearest markers of advanced English proficiency.

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Worked Example: A Team Project Meeting

The following worked example walks through a realistic scenario in which a student named Aiko summarizes the outcomes of a group project meeting. We will analyze each stage of her summary to identify the specific language strategies she employs.

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SCENARIO

Four university students — Aiko, Carlos, Priya, and Marco — have just spent 45 minutes discussing their semester research presentation. They debated the topic, divided responsibilities, and set a timeline. Aiko takes the initiative to close the meeting with a summary.

Aiko's End-of-Meeting Summary

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    Step 1 — Signal the Transition

    Aiko says: "Okay, before we all head out, let me quickly go over what we've decided so we're all on the same page." This sentence uses the discourse marker "Okay" to gain attention, the hedging phrase "let me quickly" to soften the authority claim, and the idiom "on the same page" to frame the summary as a collaborative goal.
    Strategy: Inclusive framing + meta-discursive marker
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    Step 2 — Restate the Topic Decision

    Aiko continues: "First, we agreed that our presentation will focus on the impact of social media on academic performance." She uses the enumeration marker "First" and the performative verb "agreed" (not "said" or "talked about") to frame this as a binding decision. The use of "will" signals commitment rather than possibility.
    Strategy: Enumeration + performative verb + commitment modal
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    Step 3 — Assign Responsibilities with Deadlines

    Aiko says: "Second, here's how we're splitting the work: Carlos, you're going to handle the literature review and have a draft ready by next Wednesday. Priya will design the survey and send it out by Thursday. Marco is taking care of the data analysis section, and I'll put together the introduction and conclusion by Friday." Notice the direct naming of each team member, the use of specific deadlines, and the variation in reporting structures ("you're going to," "will," "is taking care of," "I'll"). This variation prevents the summary from sounding robotic while maintaining clarity.
    Strategy: Named attribution + concrete deadlines + varied reporting
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    Step 4 — State the Next Meeting

    Aiko adds: "Finally, we'll meet again next Saturday at 2 PM in the library to review each other's sections and put the whole thing together." The marker "Finally" signals the last item. She specifies the time, date, location, and purpose of the next meeting — all four components that constitute a complete next-step specification.
    Strategy: Closing enumeration + complete next-step specification (time + date + location + purpose)
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    Step 5 — Confirm & Invite Correction

    Aiko concludes: "Does that cover everything? Did I miss anything?" These two short confirmation questions — one checking completeness, one inviting additions — create space for other participants to validate or correct the summary. Carlos responds: "Actually, we also said we'd share our sources in the group chat by Monday." Aiko repairs: "Oh right, good catch. So we'll all post our sources in the chat by Monday. Got it." The repair is smooth, acknowledging the omission without defensiveness.
    Strategy: Dual confirmation check + graceful repair sequence
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WHAT MAKES THIS EFFECTIVE

Aiko's summary succeeds because it follows a clear structural template — signal → enumerate → attribute → timeline → confirm — while also sounding natural and conversational. She does not read from a script; she organizes the information in real time using enumeration markers and transitions. Most importantly, she ends by inviting correction, which transforms the summary from a monologue into a collaborative verification process.

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Strengths, Common Pitfalls & Comparisons

Understanding what makes a summary effective requires also understanding what makes one fail. The table below contrasts strong summarizing behaviors with common pitfalls that advanced English learners often encounter, along with the impression each creates on listeners.

Effective StrategyCommon PitfallListener Impression
Use discourse markers to signal the summary ("So, to wrap up...")Jump directly into listing decisions without signalingListeners may think you are still debating, not closing
Paraphrase and synthesize, using performative verbs ("We agreed...")Repeat statements verbatim or use "We said..." instead of "We decided..."Summary feels like a transcript, not a synthesis; decisions sound tentative
Attribute action items by name with specific deadlinesUse vague attributions: "Someone should..." or "We'll do it soon"No accountability; tasks fall through the cracks
Invite confirmation and handle corrections gracefullyClose the summary without checking: "Okay, bye everyone"Participants may leave with different understandings; errors go undetected
Adjust register to match the formality of the contextUse overly casual language in formal settings or overly stiff language in casual onesSpeaker sounds either unprofessional or socially awkward

Comparison of effective summarizing strategies vs. common pitfalls

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KEY TAKEAWAY

In professional and academic English, the ability to summarize agreements is often viewed as a leadership skill. The person who takes responsibility for closing the discussion is implicitly positioned as the organizer and facilitator. For non-native speakers, mastering this skill can be transformative — it shifts your role from passive participant to active contributor. Think of it as the difference between being a musician who follows the conductor and being the conductor who brings the ensemble to a unified close.

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Connection to Advanced Communication Theory

The skill of summarizing agreements connects to several foundational concepts in advanced communication studies. Understanding these connections deepens your awareness of why certain strategies work and prepares you for more complex communicative situations such as cross-cultural negotiations, conflict mediation, and executive-level presentations. The table below maps the summarizing skill covered in this lesson to its more advanced theoretical counterparts.

This Lesson's FocusAdvanced Theory / ExtensionKey Difference
Signaling a summary with discourse markersConversation Analysis (CA) — pre-closing sequences and turn-taking mechanicsCA analyzes the micro-structure of turn allocation and repair at a granular, transcript-level detail
Using inclusive pronouns ("we") and face-saving languagePoliteness Theory (Brown & Levinson) — positive and negative face strategiesPoliteness Theory provides a formal framework for predicting when and why speakers hedge, soften, or amplify claims
Adjusting register from casual to formalSystemic Functional Linguistics (SFL) — tenor, field, and mode as variables of registerSFL provides a complete model for predicting how context shapes language choices at every linguistic level
Summarizing for a single-culture groupIntercultural Pragmatics — summarizing across high-context and low-context culturesIn high-context cultures (e.g., Japan), explicit summarizing may be perceived as overly direct; strategies must be culturally adapted

Mapping this lesson's skills to advanced communication theory

As you progress beyond this lesson, consider exploring how intercultural pragmatics complicates the seemingly straightforward act of summarizing. In some communication cultures, the direct, explicit style of summarizing taught here is the norm and is expected. In others, however, being too explicit about who must do what by when can feel confrontational or presumptuous. Advanced communicators learn to read the cultural context and adjust their summarizing strategy accordingly — sometimes relying on implicit understanding rather than exhaustive enumeration. This sensitivity is the hallmark of true communicative competence at the highest levels of language proficiency.

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Practice Problems

Question 1: CONCEPTUAL

Explain why it is important to use a discourse marker (such as "So, to summarize...") before delivering an end-of-discussion summary, rather than simply starting to list the decisions. What communicative function does this marker serve for the listeners?
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A discourse marker at the beginning of a summary serves as a cognitive cue that alerts listeners to a shift in the mode of interaction — from open discussion to synthesis. Without this signal, listeners may not realize the speaker is attempting to close the conversation, and they may continue debating or introducing new points. The marker also establishes the speaker's temporary authority as the person responsible for organizing the group's conclusions. Additionally, it frames the summary as a collaborative act ("let me make sure we're all on the same page") rather than a unilateral declaration, which supports positive face and group cohesion.

Question 2: BASIC APPLICATION

Rewrite the following weak summary into a strong one using the strategies taught in this lesson: "So, we talked about a lot of stuff. Someone should write the report, and we should meet again soon. Okay, bye."
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A strong revision might read: "Okay, before we go, let me recap what we've decided. First, we agreed that the report will focus on renewable energy policy. Second, Lena will draft the introduction and methodology sections by Wednesday, and Jun will compile the data tables by Thursday. Finally, we'll meet again on Friday at 3 PM in Room 204 to review the full draft. Does that cover everything?" This revision is effective because it opens with a clear discourse marker, uses enumeration, attributes tasks by name with deadlines, specifies the next meeting's time, date, location, and purpose, and closes with a confirmation check. The vague language of the original ("a lot of stuff," "someone," "soon") has been replaced with concrete, accountable language.

Question 3: INTERMEDIATE

You are participating in a formal academic committee meeting about revising the university's language placement exam. The committee has discussed three proposals over the past hour. Write a summary that includes: (a) a formal opening signal, (b) the three decisions using enumeration and performative verbs, (c) assigned responsibilities, and (d) a formal confirmation check. Invent plausible details for the decisions.
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A model response: "Thank you all for a very productive discussion. Allow me to outline the three key resolutions we have reached today. First, the committee has agreed to replace the current multiple-choice section with a task-based assessment component, effective next semester. Second, we have decided that Dr. Park and Professor Reyes will co-lead a subcommittee to develop the new rubric, with a draft due by March 15th. Third, it has been resolved that the registrar's office will be notified of the timeline change no later than February 1st, and Ms. Chen has volunteered to coordinate that communication. May I confirm that this accurately reflects our decisions? Are there any amendments?" This response demonstrates formal register through vocabulary choices ("resolutions," "resolved," "amendments"), passive constructions ("it has been resolved"), and a respectful confirmation check. The performative verbs ("agreed," "decided," "resolved") frame each item as a finalized commitment.

Question 4: APPLIED

You are the only non-native English speaker in a fast-paced product development meeting at a tech startup. The team discussed several features, but the conversation was chaotic and moved quickly. You are not entirely sure you caught every decision. Using appropriate language strategies, write a summary that (a) signals humility about your understanding, (b) attempts to restate the key decisions, and (c) explicitly invites correction for anything you may have missed or misunderstood.
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A model response: "Hey, before we wrap up — that was a lot of ground to cover, and I want to make sure I've got everything right. If I've misunderstood anything, please jump in and correct me. So from what I gathered, we've decided to prioritize the mobile notification feature for the next sprint. Sarah is going to finalize the user flow mockups by Monday, and Dev will set up the testing environment by Tuesday. We're also holding off on the chatbot integration until Q3, pending the budget review. And we'll touch base again at Thursday's standup to check progress. Did I get all of that right? Anything I missed?" This response strategically uses epistemic hedging ("from what I gathered") to signal that the speaker is aware they may not have perfect understanding, while still taking the initiative to summarize. The phrase "please jump in and correct me" is a preemptive repair invitation. This approach demonstrates confidence and leadership even in the face of linguistic uncertainty.

Question 5: CRITICAL THINKING

Consider a situation in which you are summarizing the outcomes of a negotiation between two parties who have different cultural communication norms. Party A (from a low-context culture) expects explicit, detailed summaries with named responsibilities and firm deadlines. Party B (from a high-context culture) considers such explicit summaries to be overly direct and even distrustful. How would you craft a summary that respects both cultural expectations? Discuss the specific language strategies you would use and explain your reasoning.
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This situation requires intercultural pragmatic sensitivity. A skilled mediator might use a two-part approach. First, the verbal summary could adopt a softer, more relational tone: "I think we've reached a really good understanding today, and I appreciate everyone's flexibility" — this addresses Party B's preference for implicit agreement and relationship emphasis. The summarizer might then say, "Just so we have a shared reference point, let me outline the general direction we've agreed on," using "general direction" rather than "binding decisions" to soften the explicitness. Specific names and deadlines could be framed as suggestions rather than mandates: "It might work well if the draft comes from Party A's team around the middle of next month." Second, the summarizer could follow up with a written summary (email or memo) that provides the explicit detail Party A needs, framing it as "for the record" or "for our files." This way, both parties receive the level of specificity they expect without either feeling disrespected. The critical skill here is recognizing that the same content can be communicated through different pragmatic packaging, and that advanced communicative competence means knowing which package to use when.

SUMMARY

Lesson Summary

Summary

Summarizing agreements and next steps at the end of a discussion is a multi-stage communicative skill that requires discourse markers to signal the transition from deliberation to closure, performative verbs and reported speech to restate decisions with clarity, enumeration markers to organize the summary for listeners, named attribution with concrete deadlines to create accountability, and confirmation checks to verify shared understanding and invite corrections.

The most effective summaries follow a structural template — Signal → Enumerate → Attribute → Timeline → Confirm — while adapting register (semi-formal vs. formal) and cultural sensitivity (high-context vs. low-context norms) to fit the situation. Mastering this skill positions you not just as a proficient English speaker but as a communicative leader — someone who ensures that every discussion ends with shared clarity and actionable outcomes.

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